Richard: They always call me the morning after their date. It's the highlight of my day.
He said: I really liked her. She is pretty and seriously sexy. Yes I'd love to see her again.
She said: He wouldn't stop talking about himself. I couldn't get a word in edgewise. He is handsome no doubt but he just won't shut up. He was fixated on religion going on and on until saying he will never convert for me. Convert?! There's only one way I'd marry him - that's if I had six months to live - because every day would seem like a year.
Richard: Conversation is a dialogue not a monologue. Start with listening. Too many minds are too busy thinking of what to say next that they miss opportunities to engage banter. Banter flows freely skipping randomly from one subject to another. Banter builds sexual curiosity. Great banter is the intellectual equivalent to an orgasm. Relax! Dating is fun if you enjoy the moment. Talk less about yourself and more about life. Humorous anecdotes are all around us, so by all means laugh at the hilarity of life. Your goal is for her to tell her girlfriends: "OMG I loved talking with him." Really? What did you talk about? "Funny, I honestly couldn't tell you, but I'm seeing him again tomorrow."
Game, Set, Match...
Cheers, Richard xoxo
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